...Stay for Drastically Reduced Anxiety
and Drama In Your Every Day Life.
My Signature Somatic Process for Trauma Resolution
and Embodiment Coaching for Relationships:
Heals Obsessive Doubts & Anxiety (Yes, even OCD and C-PTSD)
Rewires Your Attachment System for Secure & Sexy Love
Ends Conflict Cycles & Drama Loops
Seriously Powerful Healing That Genuinely Changes Your Brain and Body
Recommended Plan
Advanced Healing and Heart
Embody Emotion Heal Trauma
Learn the powerful, subtle, primal, language of your body. Digest old memories, trauma, and beliefs that do not serve.
Talk Like
Lovers Do
Drop the lectures and analysis. Communicate and play more like you're in love, less like you're a disappointed school teacher.
Magnetism
& Spiritual
Love
Artful connection with a modern approach to classic principles of sacred sexuality and conscious relating.
Make The Unconscious Conscious
Rise above the patterns that are running your life on autopilot by healing your subconscious and attachment system.
F*ck
Virtue
Trade shame, blame, perfectionism, and fear of punishment for a grown up version of high standards and passionately held values.
Life Force
Energy
Stop the drain of worry and nitpicking on your natural life force. Reclaim your erotic and creative power.
"I've been surprised by how “easy” it feels. The way Veronica facilitates the sessions is so skillful. I learn so much about interaction and connection in such a short amount of time, every time."
"Our couples sessions with Veronica are better quality and more intimate and experienced than every certified relationship therapist I have ever been to."
These priceless lessons start at day one and deepen with every session, voice memo, and *aha* moment...
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Do conflict better
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Have partners show up for you without nagging or manipulation
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Experience more trust and freedom in relationship (Let people love you!)
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Interrupt your own patterns and triggers before they blow up
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Tame your exhausting inner monologue and fears
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Release family and cultural pressures
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Actually stop worrying about being "too much" or "not enough"
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Create a sexy and fun environment for sweeter connection!
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"I woke up this morning after a conversation with my husband and thought, 'Holy shit. Investing in couples intimacy coaching with Veronica was the best investment we've ever made together.' It was literally the thing that helps me pause and slow down and digest and explain myself with my partner in a way that I never would have otherwise...because I was getting in my own way."
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Things are different around here.
What to expect in your Deep Dive Sessions:
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In your 1-hour and 20 minute sessions you will experience a combination of verbal coaching, somatic embodiment, and subconscious healing through subtle but powerful exercises. You will be held and led by me every step of the way. At times, you will experience euphoric energy or emotional releases right there in the moment. Other times, the exercises will be woven in so seamlessly to our conversation that you may not even realize how much you're shifting until later when you're seeing the world through new eyes.
Structure:
You will have either 2 or 3 virtual sessions a month depending on the package you choose.
For Partners, you decide how to share your sessions. Some sessions will be together and others separate. At times you may also witness your partner in their process by invitation. I will make recommendations for how you use your sessions and welcome your vision as well.
Flavors:
Everyone will experience one or a combination of the following exercises and topics in every session. Some people or couples will spend a lot of time in one area, like Repair for example, while others may travel all around the different types. It varies by individual personality and stage of life. At play in every session: empathy, attunement, breath, and laughter.
Somatic Embodiment - feel the pulse of what's alive right now like jealousy, anxiety, insecurity, numbness, excitement, gratitude, grief, arousal. Work with longstanding trauma or disconnect that lives in your body. You will come away from these sessions relieved and energized.
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Parts Work - meet your inner managers and protectors who help you stay safe and sometimes get in your way with habits like perfectionism and procrastination. You will come away from these sessions with the ability to feel when a pattern is bubbling up in the moment.
Parts Work Deep Dive - 'travel in time' to better understand fragmented parts of yourself who have gotten lost or been ignored. You will come away from these sessions unburdened and with a fresh start on at least one of your recurring patterns.
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Attachment - embrace your longing for closeness and unpack the ways you resist it with perspective shifts and gentle connection. You will come away from these sessions more calibrated and available for connection.
Repair - learn the steps and principles of collaborative conflict with live intervention. You will come away from these sessions having resolved a spat and with new tools to squash your repeating fights.
Desire and Shadow Work - explore fantasies and needs and how it feels to discuss spicy topics. This includes subconscious or taboo desires that you may not be aware of yet. You don't have to tell anyone about these edgier yearnings, but suddenly so many things will make sense that have never clicked before. You will come away from these sessions lit up and wildly empowered.
Agreements - express your needs and boundaries. You will come away from these sessions with clarity, practice, and a plan without adding any more 'rules' or rigid structures.
Brainstorm - review solutions for a sticky situation or a roadblock from anything to a problem at work to a physical challenge in the bedroom. You will come away from these sessions with some ideas and next steps.
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Not Traditional Therapy:
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I'm going to break you free from your script of perfectly crafted explanations for why you are the way you are because that script is keeping you stuck. One thing we will not do is spend your whole sessions venting or explaining yourself.
I know that you might have already read lots of books, spent hours in therapy, or tried to cold plunge and meditate to a higher plane of existence. These sessions will help you integrate all of that into something you can actually use and help you put some of that down if you find that your pursuit of perfection is not actually serving you.
Heal shame and old hurts so they stop running the show
​​You can meet your past, future, and subconscious selves while staying safely rooted in today. Many people will hesitate to engage in this level of rebirth and revelation for fear of getting lost in the weeds or stuck in an emotional process you can't get out of.
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You will have a master shepherdess on your side.
"In this moment of awakening, I've crossed many humans who are doing their own admirable unlearning... but very few (I mean very few) are fortified enough to light a flame in my moments of darkness as you have... very few have polished their own vessel wisely enough to reflect pure light back at me when I need it the most."
-Francesca
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"We've done couples therapy with a PhD level psychologist and didn't get to even 10% of what we uncovered with Veronica in three months."
-John
​First, you will wake up to and learn how to effectively talk about your feelings and desires beyond complaint and analysis. I know you think you already know how to do this but this is especially for those who have tons of practice already. As you discover both familiar and surprising patterns and protective mechanisms, you soften and open in a new way.​​
People will start to wonder
what's different about you.
Get to the Root
Without Getting Lost
or Overwhelmed
Maybe you're afraid of opening a can of worms in your life or relationship. I get it. I have learned through experience how to keep you grounded in the here and now and how to handle unexpected twists and turns that arise through the healing process both individually and between partners. I've got you. This commitment to safely travel through subconscious patterns and unspoken desires informs the structure and pacing of this offer. I have seen this unfolding many times and the path is very much on purpose.
"I Think you're a witch
and I'm here for it." -Claire
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"I learned how to be in my own self energy and not just try to chase or feel other people. I'm becoming more and more confident in what I believe and what is true and feels good for me. I didn't realize how much I questioned my own thoughts, feelings, and desires. It feels really good to be more sure and not expect or need anyone else to change anything."
-Marissa (a total powerhouse, by the way)
Next, you begin to boldly embody the things that you've learned. No more performing or parroting theories about what great intimacy should be like because you're actually living it. Now it's SO MUCH harder for anything or anyone to throw off your vibe.
As partners, you feel clearer about what you are creating and have a rock solid skillset to handle anything. You will find that you get in and out of conflict much faster and with less damage to your union.
You can't imagine ever going back to the old version of you and you won't.
There is no label that could capture your multitudes, honey.
You are not your patterns or diagnosis, perfectionism is not
a personality, attachment style is not an identity,
and anxiety is not who you are.
As we grow, we pick up strategies like perfectionism, people pleasing, procrastinating, bottling up emotions, and compulsive behaviors to help us feel love, avoid discomfort, and manage trauma. Intellectualizing or thinking about these strategies can only get us so far.
Talking in circles, debating, or venting can make us feel like we're accomplishing something, but after we're done, we revert back to the same frustration, confusion, and behaviors because ranting or repeating ourselves isn't helping with the tension we feel inside.
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When you're overthinking, shutting down, nitpicking, talking your friend's ears off, scrambling to stay busy, resisting pleasure, lashing out, bingeing, or running from affection, those are all signs that your systems are overwhelmed and that the stories of your mind and the feelings in your body are out of balance.
That's why you'll learn to understand and BE with all of the sensations of your body in the moment before you get stuck in the loop of overthinking or picking fights that don't need to happen.
Count on Sustainable Growth
Between Sessions with
Voice Memo and Text Support!
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Many of my clients have their biggest breakthroughs
between sessions because that is when life happens.
With the Telegram App, you can send a note straight to me
after a bad date, before an important conversation, or to
share your self-love wins right there in the moment!
​​Pssst...Are you like me and only reach out if you know the price?
These sessions may cost more than your average therapy but get more results in less time and include messaging support between sessions. Take a look at PayPal PayLater at checkout to explore your options for payment plans.
Tax and fees already included. Ya' welcome!
Hi! I'm Veronica!
I'm a Certified Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach
Equally comfortable with science and spirituality, I’m able to distill complex knowledge into something digestible and potent that will be paced to your individual needs and comfort level.
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There are no stuffy lessons for you to process in my sessions. I blend all that I’ve learned and all that I intuitively feel into something you can actually use right now. I can feel the things that sometimes even you are not aware of and will help you to uncover those hidden blocks.
You will come away from every session energized and with actionable feedback.
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If you’re here, I know that you’re growth-oriented and always seeking answers--whether it’s in the books you’re reading or trying out all sorts of meditation techniques.
As a recovering perfectionist myself and forever healing fanatic, I get you, I know how to help you, and I will deliver radical honesty and unconditional acceptance to you in a way that you will find is simply unrivaled in the ordinary world.
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You belong here.
My clients are people and partners of all genders, ages, and lifestyles. Vanilla, Kinky, Never-Been-Kissed, Married and Monogamous, Festival-Hopping-Free-Lovers, and Sunday School Teachers.... you're all welcome here.