We Teach People How To Love Us...Make sure you're teaching the right things...
All your life you’ve been teaching people how to love you…and they are watching VERY closely. They see the things that light you up… They...
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Veronica Puryear
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Just waiting for you to stop pushing your limits with disembodied habits...and instead...
Are you pushing yourself with disembodied habits and overwork when instead you could be channeling that energy into inspired risks and...
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Veronica Puryear
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You Don't Get to be This Emotionally Intelligent or Good At Sex Without Dabbling in the Dark Arts
I said this to a lover recently because—as an Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon—I identify as a lovable menace. But seriously, the emotional...
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Veronica Puryear
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"You're The Sex Mother I Never Had"
One of my clients called me this. The Sx Mother She Never Had. And it’s not just about the birds and the bees 🐝… I’m teaching people...
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Veronica Puryear
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In What Adorably Creative Way Will you Beat Yourself Up Today?
“Nobody appreciates me” “I’m not allowed to feel sad because someone else has a harder time than me” “I give and give and give and people...
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Veronica Puryear
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Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy are a guarantee of anything
Words and labels are meaningless without explicit and ongoing agreement between you and your partner(s). No one relationship dynamic is...
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Veronica Puryear
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Relationships do not have to be fair
Do you keep track of who did the last nice thing? Do you wait for someone else to show affection before expressing your feelings? Are you...
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Veronica Puryear
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To be seen is erotic.
To be seen is erotic. To know that you are seen for your whole self as you really are. To be radically witnessed in your grace, skills,...
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Veronica Puryear
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Celebrate men for following their integrity even if their plans don't include you
My date left earlier than expected last night to take care of something in his life. Something important. I was touched by the tenderness...
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Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
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Veronica Puryear
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So many masculine people worry that their energy is harmful
Regardless of your socialized or lived gender experience, you have likely internalized the idea that men are dangerous. That their sexual...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
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Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Fuck Virtue, Fuck Purity, Fuck Gatekeeping
Perfection is where pleasure goes to die. They say patience is a virtue. I say fuck virtue. Every day I think about Moms and caretakers...
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Veronica Puryear
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Be Direct About Your Desires So People Can Meet You Where You're At
If you’re not being direct about what you want and what you’re available for, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment and probably...
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Veronica Puryear
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Anxiety happens....
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
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Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
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Veronica Puryear
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It can be even more vulnerable to receive than it is to give...
“I just like to give pleasure” I’m sure you do love to give, but maybe you’re avoiding something in the process. Surrendering to pleasure...
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Veronica Puryear
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People of all genders experience relationship anxiety
People read text messages over and over. People lay awake in bed replaying the thing they did or didn’t do. People freeze up and can’t...
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Veronica Puryear
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You’re not broken.
You can have healthy relationships of all kinds. I see you....over-identifying with a label, an attachment style, or a diagnosis. You...
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