Good luck trying to get me to make you feel wrong about something because I mostly believe that right and wrong are simply not a thing....

I’m regularly annoyed and sometimes even disturbed to see relationship experts and therapists posting content that recommends settling....

More connection not less. A discovery from my own avoidant moments. Sometimes people confuse my resistance to closeness as a desire to be...

Feeling exhausted by the not-so-subtle nitpicking of your partner? Or maybe you're just so worn out from having to guess what people want...

I don’t talk about this on social media often (hello, highly public and censored platforms!) but I know it’s the reason so many of you...

I'm talking about me this time. A coach called me prickly today. The big trigger. That I'm perceived as hard to understand and difficult...

I hear this AND OTHER SUCH EXCUSES constantly. "When the timing is right,"..."When the right match finally comes along,"...."When I find...

This just needs to be said. Love is not a thing you "get" from someone. Are you treating Love as something transactional or like a...

Men and people who are raising young men. Toxic shame which leads to unhealthy masculinity which leads to disassociation, trauma,...

My date left earlier than expected last night to take care of something in his life. Something important. I was touched by the tenderness...

Regardless of your socialized or lived gender experience, you have likely internalized the idea that men are dangerous. That their sexual...

People read text messages over and over. People lay awake in bed replaying the thing they did or didn’t do. People freeze up and can’t...

You want to be a classy dude. A feminist. You want to respect her space and to never "assume" anything physical or romantic will happen....

Are Men callous, cold, indifferent, lazy? https://www.instagram.com/p/CbF8johp1h9/ Or are they: 💔 Used to getting shot down 💔 Terrified...

Stop performing someone else’s version of masculinity. You don’t have to learn a “game” or “moves” you need to be able to feel your OWN...

Do you like it when I’m in charge? When I make you stop ✋ and take a breath… 👄 … so you can pause and be fully present? I know how much...

Ask yourself, “am I thinking for two?” You can (and I hope you do) have intimacy with yourself by listening to your body, honing your...

Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...

Is it still an exchange if there’s no org*sm? This seems like a tough concept for most guys A lot of guys get confused when they realize...

How is Somatic Relationship Coaching with me different from other healing modalities you have tried when it comes to.... Relationship...