Why I Don't Believe in Foreplay
Video: https://www.instagram.com/p/CUskurLpGJJ/ Forget ‘Foreplay’ and Make Every Moment Count In my world, foreplay doesn’t exist....
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Veronica Puryear
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Reason #1 Your Sex, Relationships, Pleasure Aren't Working?
You're Not Clear On What You Want Has anyone ever asked you what you want and you just kind froze? Maybe because nobody has ever asked...
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Veronica Puryear
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Am I Difficult Or Am I Courageous Enough to State My Needs?
Normalize having desires… and actually making them known! I get pretty emotional in the part of my workshop where I ask you to imagine...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your Pleasure Education is Just Beginning and You are Your Most Important Teacher
I am built for pleasure. I am destined for it. We all are. But we are so quickly stripped of and shamed for it—the pleasure that is our...
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Veronica Puryear
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Having Boundaries has nothing to do with being rigid
Having Boundaries has nothing to do with being rigid. I am probably way more boundaried than your average person but I am also VERY...
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Veronica Puryear
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In What Adorably Creative Way Will you Beat Yourself Up Today?
“Nobody appreciates me” “I’m not allowed to feel sad because someone else has a harder time than me” “I give and give and give and people...
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Veronica Puryear
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Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy are a guarantee of anything
Words and labels are meaningless without explicit and ongoing agreement between you and your partner(s). No one relationship dynamic is...
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Veronica Puryear
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When someone tells you that they're triggered, that's a vulnerable invitation to love them more
When someone tells you that they're triggered, they are essentially giving you the cheat codes on how to love them. A trigger is...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your personal growth will not always align with where you're at in your relationships
Many people experience a big awakening in the first couple of sessions with me. When they start identifying what they want, practicing...
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Veronica Puryear
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If you have to be passive aggressive to say it...
You don't feel safe saying how you really feel... You are not being honest with yourself... You don't believe that you deserve what you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Be Direct About Your Desires So People Can Meet You Where You're At
If you’re not being direct about what you want and what you’re available for, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment and probably...
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Veronica Puryear
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Anxiety happens....
Before you unravel… Remember that everyone gets nervous. I see so many clients—and my own lovers—get so lost in their own heads. You...
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Veronica Puryear
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People lie, hide things, and panic to save relationships.
This is not a pro-lying post, and I’m certainly not defending anyone who is consistently dishonest or abusive. But in the course of life...
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Veronica Puryear
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People of all genders experience relationship anxiety
People read text messages over and over. People lay awake in bed replaying the thing they did or didn’t do. People freeze up and can’t...
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Veronica Puryear
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Going with the flow is not the favor you think it is.
You want to be a classy dude. A feminist. You want to respect her space and to never "assume" anything physical or romantic will happen....
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Veronica Puryear
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You cannot accurately calibrate intimacy when you're overthinking
Ask yourself, “am I thinking for two?” You can (and I hope you do) have intimacy with yourself by listening to your body, honing your...
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Veronica Puryear
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Your needs and desires are not a problem: But How You Show Up Matters
Your needs and desires are not a problem: Your urge to text and communicate Your longing to see someone (no matter how long it's been)...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men Deserve Tenderness, Consent, and Boundaries Too
Do you know how to seduce a man? How to let it take all day? How to build a connection? To ask for permission to take the friendly banter...
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Veronica Puryear
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Becoming a Magnetic Man
Any one else desperately wish for more smooth, witty flirting? A lot of my masculine clients apologize to me for their energy. Or they...
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Veronica Puryear
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He Wouldn't Let Me Help
He wouldn’t let me pull his splinter. Actually, he often wouldn’t let me help him or offer him comfort at all. This was a somewhat noble...
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