Are you leaning forward in Love? Always the first to text and fill the silence?
Always the first to text in relationships? Wonder why others don't take more initiative?
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Veronica Puryear
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A sneaky trick of guilt and shame in relationship (and subconscious ways we blame others for our discomfort)
Do you find yourself getting defensive when you do things for yourself or take up space in your relationship? Do you imagine your partner...
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Veronica Puryear
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How is Somatic Intimacy Emotion Coaching Different from Traditional Talk Therapy? (Anxious/Avoidant Edition...)
I copied this description (scroll down to see the answer) below from my about page explaining the difference between Somatic Therapy and...
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Veronica Puryear
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"I should just let this go..." "If they could just do this ONE thing..."
The ways in which we are critical of ourselves often creates so much resistance and distortion in our minds. If you could just BE...
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Veronica Puryear
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Independent, Reserved, and Aloof People Need Deeper Connection, Not Less
More connection not less. A discovery from my own avoidant moments. Sometimes people confuse my resistance to closeness as a desire to be...
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Veronica Puryear
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"If it's Not a Full-Body 'Fuck Yes'....Maybe You're Scared."
If you have a choice to make and your body is resisting by showing anxiety....you're probably scared and that doesn't automatically mean...
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Veronica Puryear
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In Time of Intensity Call Your Energy Back to Yourself....
Your Reminder to Take Exquisite Care of Yourself... Intimacy means that our energy may become scattered and spread out amongst our loved...
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Veronica Puryear
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Why Men Shut Down.
Feeling exhausted by the not-so-subtle nitpicking of your partner? Or maybe you're just so worn out from having to guess what people want...
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Veronica Puryear
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Experiential Somatic Intimacy Coaching is different from traditional therapy in three key ways
As a former appointee of a Presidential Administration, I'm no stranger to the burnout and disconnection that comes from our fast-paced...
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Veronica Puryear
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Everybody's A Little Kinky (So why does it feel like a dirty secret?)
I don’t talk about this on social media often (hello, highly public and censored platforms!) but I know it’s the reason so many of you...
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Veronica Puryear
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Healing the Subconscious
I've been doing a lot of work with my subconscious lately. I'm healing old wounds so I can welcome in new gifts. Based on crying volume...
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Veronica Puryear
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What Is A 1:1 Session Like? What Can I Expect?
What happens in a session? ***Please note that all sessions are fully clothed and that we will not have intercourse.*** In sessions, I...
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Veronica Puryear
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Five Things I Didn't Realize Were Codependent
If you grew up managing a parent’s mood or behaviors (or were raised by someone with that trauma)… You might have learned that: 👎it’s...
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Veronica Puryear
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If You Get Triggered By Their Venting Then You Might Actually Be The One With The Problem
Did you catch my reel about getting triggered? Maybe it’s actually pretty hard for you to listen without… ⛈ taking something personally ⛈...
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Veronica Puryear
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Remember how it feels to be sexy...
SIREN + SOVEREIGN is a video workshop for women that will help you create epic sex and relationships by breaking out of the super common...
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Veronica Puryear
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You're giving Mother where you're meant to be Lover
You don’t understand how you can give everything, do everything for them and they still don’t show up for you or return the favor. This...
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Veronica Puryear
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Men, now is not the time to overcorrect.
Men and people who are raising young men. Toxic shame which leads to unhealthy masculinity which leads to disassociation, trauma,...
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Veronica Puryear
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Giving critiques can often feel more familiar and easy than giving love
Sometimes judgement feels like the only safe way to say, “I care.” Being sincere is hard and vulnerable. Intimacy, true vulnerable...
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Veronica Puryear
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How much of your dreams can you actually handle?
How much discomfort can you handle? (Disappointing others, saying ‘No’) How much joy? (Letting people love you, feeling satisfied and...
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Veronica Puryear
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Self Sacrifice is not the thing that makes you a great partner...
Your worth is not in the things that you “do” for people, but in who you are to them by simply being your most authentic and loving self....
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